Note that, It is possible to have God's best choice and still fail in marriage.
Many have married God's perfect gift as husband/wife but yet it turned out as if they had received a thorn in their flesh. Why?
They never really know and understand how to build and make the marriage work BEFORE getting married.
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I believe it is good to know HOW TO GET something and also good to know HOW TO SUSTAIN it.
When God gives you anything and you don't use it well, it'll still end as when He never did give you that thing. For instance, there are people God has blessed with good money and yet, they are on there way to hell. Do we say it is not God who gave them? Of course it was God but they never did use it to His glory and this makes them end in destruction.
Having God's perfect choice is not just what makes it work, it is about you working with it based on biblical principles that makes it work. Is it not written or have you not heard, work out your salvation with fear and trembling.
Please note that, this principles can't fail, not even the devil has the capacity to make them fail if you apply them in understanding.
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I've not just heard about marriages that are NOT working, I've seen many and most a times women are the MAJOR victims.
Now what are the ways of making a marriage work?
These are practical steps that CAN NEVER fail as long as God remains God::
1. Selfless Humility
2. Holding hands DAILY to PRAY.
3. Openness.
4. Love that is NOT conditional
5. Constant Communication or CONSISTENTLY showing of your love through SPOKEN WORDS. Never assume your paetner knows what you feel, say it out.
These are five smooth stones that can't fail but know that, all other factors must be in place like, the FEAR OF GOD, exhibition of the FRUITS of the SPIRIT, etc..
I pray you will enjoy your home indeed and not merely endure it in Jesus name. Amen.
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