Saturday         11th  August,  2018.

```DESTINY DISCOVERY AND MOLDING MESSAGE```
♦ *TOPIC: Relationship Wisdom Wisdom Keys) Pt. 4*
*_By: Judah Olatunde_*

Colossians  3:16  LET THE WORD OF CHRIST DWELL IN YOU RICHLY IN ALL WISDOM; teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord.

We saw some wisdom keys yesterday and we shall yet be considering some other wisdom keys today:

★ NEVER AVOID WARNING SIGNALS: Courtship has been designed to make you know whom you are getting married to but the opposite is the case.

The kind of knowing people in courtship know now is the kind that involves sex and this kind always hides so many wrongs and errors in the dark. As long as you're engaging in premarital sex, it is impossible for your eyes to be open to see the true state and nature of that person.

 Multitude has entered trouble just because they refused to watch, know and learn in courtship. Some women/men saw the partner they were getting married to addicted to some negative things like excessive anger, uncontrollable urge for sex, uncontrollable temper, pornography, drinking, smoking and all manner of stuffs and yet they ignored these signs and went ahead to marry such men only to discover that they could not handle the outcome.

★ VALUE FOR THE WORD AND PRAYER: Never marry a man or woman who has little or no value for the word of God and prayer. Run for your life and destiny. A man who does not value the word will never value you no matter how hard you try to please him. I've heard ordeals of women who have been victims of this.

The problem is that, many women who have been victims always saw these in their partner during courtship but yet went on to marry such a fellow only to face the repercussions in marriage.

★ DEAL WITH THE DIFFERENCES: Until you're able to balance up your differences in courtship, you can't succeed in marriage. Don't wait till after your wedding before you know what your differences are and blend.

★ DEAL WITH PRAYERLESSNESS: Any relationship not built on prayer will definitely not see the light of the day neither will such a relationship have a glorious ending. If prayer is not strong in courtship, prayer can't definitely be strong in marriage and once it is like this, that home will be a perpetual victim of frustration and tragedy.

*Insights For Today: Your foundation matters because if you're building on rubbles, you're heading for troubles.*

*_Prayers: Father, help me to put to work all that I have learnt in Jesus name. Keep Keep by faith_*

★ *TODAY'S INSTRUCTION:  Worship the Lord and pray for 1 hour.

★DAILY BIBLE READING PLAN: Jeremiah 28; Rev 11 and Psalms 99